Want, Need, Wear, Read – Why I’m NOT Buying The “Four Gift Rule”

You’ve probably heard this before: you ought to buy four (that’s 4!) Christmas presents for your kids: something they want, something they need, something to wear, something to read.

Personally, I couldn’t disagree more.

Firstly, clothing items are not exactly presentable, unless your little one just started to discover her/his style (colour or character obsession at this stage really) and that’s their request. In which case it also falls into the WANT category. That’s fine. They are cute being huge Batman fans, wanting to wear Batman costume 24/7.

Secondly, whatever they NEED, that’s not a gift, again, you just have to buy it anyway. Like toothbrush or multivitamins. Wrap them up and put them under the Christmas tree just to have MORE presents? Why? Will the tree look more Instagram-worthy?

Therefore, I say, keep Christmas gifting low-key. Don’t shower them with presents. Instead, buy one or two MEANINGFUL present. It’s good for them and it’s all about presentation. Make them understand that Christmas is not about buying stuff. If they don’t understand it just yet, they surely will sooner or later.

My Christmas gift rules are:

Something they want and something to enjoy together. Let them pick one thing they really-really want (but still reasonable). Let them pick carefully. If they still wish for a pink plush unicorn, then let it be. Respect their wish. As for the second present, that’s your duty to find it. Find something to enjoy together. Give them the joy of togetherness. Playing together. Reading with them. Go and explore. Watch a panto. Something to remember. Create memories. Spend your time, not only your money. They need you and not another pair of jeans.

 

 

Burnished Chaos

2 Comments

  1. I agree! I would hate to feel like I was feeling like I needed to buy something to match a saying or tradition. I do try to strike a balance between a few educational gifts (like books that they enjoy) and a few entertainment gifts (toys etc.) but otherwise I like to think Christmas is more about creating memories and spending valuable time together.

  2. That’s an excellent outlook towards Christmas presents. I’m definitely trying not to overspend or over do it on stuff they don’t need. Last year we used some of the money they had to buy them season tickets for Thomas Land, which they loved and meant we got lots of family time together. Thanks for joining us at #familyfun

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